Father's Issue (Isu tentang Bapa)
English Version: In my age, 25 something more, most young woman are facing a crossroad in their life. Are we going to pursue a career or build a family with a loved partner? At this time, the young woman will usually be stuck with the notion that we must not become an old maid since no man will want to be with. This in turn, leads us to the assumption that the decision in a hurry to get married without knowing what was the meaning of a marriage. Until I am writing this article, already 2 times, I was proposed by a man. However, already 2 times, I also refused them for different reasons. My first reason was because I was not ready for marriage, still young, and still looking for identity. My second reason was because I was not sure if he's the right guy or not to marry me. Courtship was not enough to convince me to get married and live with a man. After going through a quarter-century journey of life and also reflections, I find my unpreparedness entering a period of marriage i